Old Ska is a pig ****er

[MomOf8]

Just so you all know what a low-life ska is, he neg repped me about 10 times, more than I can count and the lowest he stooped was when he put this message in my neg rep:

http://img158.imageshack.us/img158/9317/img11042sz.jpg and I'm the idiot?

Just so you know Ska, you win. Have fun with your little group of bed buddies. I wont be coming back to the forum. You win!

[DadOf8]

Some of you know why Jenny (MomOf8) shaved her head, some don't. If you know, then you know it wasn't for an idiotic reason. I really don't need to go into why it was done because Jenny doesn't need to justify her actions. Have fun with your litttle (and I mean that diminutively) supporters group.

Ciao.

[SokkerNut]

I don't know and as I see it since I don't know her personally it really isn't any of my business. Her reasons are just that her reasons. For someone to post this like they did is totally out of line. The person that did this has not character. I wish I could say I'm shocked but there are some pretty ugly (and I'm not talking looks) people out there.

[Old Ska]

Okay,

Here is the scoop...

I gave a legitimate neg rep for a pointless post. I get a retalitory neg rep which says "here we go again." Fine, maybe I deserve it, I don't care. Then I get about 22 more neg reps including comments such as (what follows is a very brief sample):

-Why let my comments bother you? I can do this all day, or as long as you want to play the 'neg rep' game. LOL

-Just diggin' up old posts of yours. Anyhow, I'm surprised. You graduated from BYU? Or, at least went to school there? How sad. I guess that means you are LDS? Maybe you should act it?

-Such an ego. Oh, I get it now. I BURST your ego, that's why you hate me so. LOL

-Are we having fun yet? Oh...quote*I am more pathetic that(can't even spell, you idiot) any of you* Truer words have NEVER been spoken by someone.

So, I stooped to the same level, and called her an idiot back based on one of her posts. Lame, yes. Uncalled for entirely. Even if it was entirely in private and not public, my response to her name calling was inappropriate in every regard.

Then, I get a nice email from a member of the forums today who is also in the West Valley First Ward with Mom of 8 who explained some things about Momof8 that I could not have possibly known, including some things about her mental state and the family's situation. In fact, in another, more private place, I advocated treating her with respect.

In retrospect I can see that I was out of line and unfair. I apologize without qualifications...I was dead wrong. I typically stay out of this group for exactly this reason. I'll go back to lurking around.

I will stand up for myself however, and publicly declare that what I am accused of doing to pigs is something that I have, in fact, never done.

Momof8 this is much more your forum than it ever was mine. If it is a choice between myself and you posting here, I think it should be you, no question.

Anyways, after this post I am gone for the weekend. Feel free to contact me about this anyone, but don't expect a response before Monday, I am not sure how often I will be near 'net access between now and then.

[montgjules]

*sigh* I can feel your pain.

My enjoyment of soccer has been curtailed by the unfriendly attitude I have received from both RCB and Loyalists members alike. I no longer attend tailgates, watch parties, etc. because I do not feel wanted or needed. I do not have other people to go to games with usually, so I have made the supporters groups my people to hang out with. Unfortunately, since I don't feel welcome, I now just skip the games altogether since I don't want to go and stand alone.

It's unfortunate that MomOf8, DadOf8, myself, Czar Jake, etc. etc. have decided the supporters groups are not the place to be. For the 8's, Jake, etc. they can still attend games (barring the transatlantic flight difficulties where applicable) with friends and just stand elsewhere. For me, it takes a whole lot of courage just to walk into E32 and try to look happy.

I could post specific reasons and actions that have offended me. However, I think that this all needs to be dropped and put in the past. I think that by next season I will feel comfortable with people again and things will be distant enough that they aren't remembered. I hope people can learn to bite their tongue, swallow their pride and just step away so we don't have more and more and more people go away through the years.

I'm done preaching. Hallelujah and amen.

[Stucki]

Does anyone remember when the forum was just a nice place to talk about our excitement about RSL?

I didn't know anyone before the Loyalists either. I have made new friends in the Loyalists that make it even more fun.

[DadOf8]

Just for the record, I'm the one that logged in as Jenny and posted that. As for members of West Valley 1st Ward being members of this forum, well you know that's a fabrication and I know you can easily find my address and find out which ward I'm in. You're lucky I'm not the kind that would file a lawsuit. I think instead I'll just turn the other cheek on this one. Yeah, maybe I'm a little unstable Ska, but I think I'll be the bigger man and drop it now. Jenny's protective of me and I'm protective of her and I think any reasonable human being is protective of their family.

Have a great life!

[Deuce]

You know I remember when it was all about soccer...
It is all about soccer for me once again.
That is why you see most of my posts of late are about, strangely enough... soccer. with the exception of trying to find someone to install a satellite radio.

I have gone off on a few ppl in the past (and caused alot of crap)but I will tell you that I feel so much better that I have just let things go.

Some ppl are unable to do that and it is perfectly fine. I just ask that you refrain from airing your dirty laundry on this forum.

Cos i will tell you what... NOBODY GIVES A SH*T! Honestly... nobody cares that you guys are fighting about crap that nobody really cares about and nobody cares who is right and who is wrong... Nobody cares if you feel comfortable with yourself and nobody cares that ppl don't have friends...

If you guys want friends than make friends but just because ppl post here does not automatically mean that ppl want to be your friend. On this forum just like real life... Friends are earned... they are not there simply because you post on the same forum. if you want friends than be a friend to someone.

if your lives are so sad that you base your existence on whether or not ppl on a bloody soccer forum are friendly or not... then you folks need more help than anyone here can give you.

So please stop feeling sorry for yourselves and stop expecting to be pittied for your life choices or situations you have created for yourselves... In the grand scheme that is life...nobody but yourself really cares.

And when it is all said and done nobody remembers the pittied BUT they do remember friends.

So PPL just stop being so bloody pathetic and get over it! Take it private if you want to continue cos i will tell you nobody really wants to hear it! And if they do they will ask!

One more little thing and you all can take it for what it is worth!

The people that matter don't care... and the people that care don't matter!

This is my slant and it is not directed at anyone in particular but at the silly sh*t that is transpiring of late.

thread closed!